As we are gearing up towards the very last day of the darkest, coldest month (well, usually), I have some very personal advice for you. It comes from a realization that New Year’s Eve, with it’s anticipated legendary parties, romantic midnight kisses, and party dresses that are completely not appropriate for the weather, is bunk. New Year’s Eve parties can be fun, don’t get me wrong, but you don’t have to place all your bets…